This is the view from one of the hanging chairs outside my back door! One of my favorite places to be as I read, write or eat. I love living in the foothills of this ridge. So peaceful and pretty. Yesterday, I went to the dentist for my bi-annual check up and cleaning. Saw my friend Shannon. She is a 3 year survivor of breast cancer. Shannon had it rough during her battle. She was one of those, that had just about every complication and negative side effect possible when she went through her treatments. As an example, to this day, her hair has not grown back. During chemo, she was so sensitive to the chemo that the minute the IV started giving her the meds, she started throwing up. And yet, she made it through with a lot of wisdom and encouragement that she has passed on to others. It was soooo validating to talk with her.
After taking the "Cancer Transitions," class, I was prepared with the idea that getting back to life was going to take time and for some...it can be even more difficult than getting through treatment. So difficult in fact that a type of PTSD can be experienced. REALLY? WOW...... the questions, "How are you doing? How are you feeling?" are loaded for me right now. Wonder when that will change. I have a hard time putting it in to words. The best analogy I have come up with so far is this:
"For with God, nothing shall be impossible, " St. Luke 1:37. There is a Christian poem called "Footprints." This popular text, describes an experience in which a person is walking on a beach with God. They leave two sets of footprints in the sand behind them. Looking back, the tracks represent various stages of their life. At some point, the two trails dwindle to one, especially at the lowest and most hopeless moments of the person's life. When questioning God, believing that the Lord must have abandoned His love during those times, God gives the explanation: "During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."
That pretty much sums up my cancer journey. Through the enabling power of the Saviors atonement, I feel that I was carried through treatments. About the only negative side effects that I came away with were Lymphedema in my right hand and arm and difficulties with memory. Other than that, all my treatments stayed on schedule and negative side effects were minimal. I am so grateful for that! When people say to me, "you were amazing during all of that," I respond, "That wasn't me, that was the enabling power of the atonement, and the prayers that were offered on my behalf." I could feel such strength, peace, and comfort come to me as a result of people's prayers.
Getting back to my "new normal?" Well, that has been a bit like this: it's like a toddler that is learning to walk. The parent places the child on the ground with confidence. They know the toddler is ready to walk on their own. The toddler, is ....not-so-sure, and begins to whine and cry. They want back in the parents arms! They were cozy and comfortable. The parent gently coaxes and encourages. They aren't going anywhere and are following closely in case they need to catch or help steady the toddler. But the toddler is not yet confident.... That confidence will come with time and experience. I hope that to be true for myself as well.
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